Making It Shine I want to talk about what it takes to make your marriage really shine. I want to highlight some of the little things that can make your marriage stand out. You know what I’m talking about. You’ve seen these couples. They look like enjoy being together even after 50 years. When they’re near each other they’re finding subtle ways to let the other know, “I’m glad you’re here.” It’s a glance. It’s a little touch. It’s a smile and a sparkle in the eye.